Our offer and costs for couples counseling

De Relatiespecialist

De Relatiespecialist has been the highest rated couples counseling practice in for the last three years.

You’ve decided to take action so you can quickly enjoy spending time with your partner again. On this page, you’ll find the best options and the associated costs.

Good to know: we offer both traditional couples therapy and multi-month programs in the English language. The best option for you depends on your unique situation.

Our couples therapy can be conducted online, face-to-face, or as a mix of both. We have offices in Zeist and Amsterdam, with short waiting times. Thanks to our specialized expertise, our therapy programs are shorter than average.

Below, you’ll find descriptions of several common situations. Do you recognize any of them? Click on it to explore the different options. If nothing resonates with you, don’t worry—at the bottom of the list, you’ll find the option “Other.”

You’ve decided to take action so you can quickly enjoy spending time with your partner again. On this page, you’ll find the best options and their associated costs.

Good to know: we offer both traditional couples therapy and multi-month programs in the English language. The best option for you depends on your unique situation.

Our couples therapy can be conducted online, face-to-face, or as a mix of both. We have offices in Zeist and Amsterdam, with short waiting times. Thanks to our specialized expertise, our therapy programs are shorter than average.

Below, you’ll find descriptions of several common situations. Do you recognize any of them? Click on it to explore the different options. If nothing resonates with you, don’t worry—at the bottom of the list, you’ll find the option “Other.”

De Relatiespecialist

De Relatiespecialist has been the highest rated couples counseling practice in for the last three years.

Click on your situation to find the best option for you.

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Is the trust broken because one of you didn’t keep their promises? Click here.

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Does one of you have feelings for someone else? Click here.

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Are you experiencing too many arguments and/or irritations? Click here.

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Are you a blended family experiencing challenges? Click here.

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Have you grown apart? Click here.

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Does one of you want a divorce while the other does not? Click here.

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Are you dealing with a combination of the above issues? Click here.

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Is your situation not listed here? Click here.

Broken Trust, Promises Not Kept

You or your partner hasn’t kept the promises made within your relationship. For example, by having intimate (online) contact with someone else, secretly smoking, or not spending money as agreed. These are just examples—perhaps something else has happened that has led to a sudden lack of trust.

Your preferred solution and average cost

In this situation, regular couples therapy is the best option. This can be conducted online and/or face-to-face at our locations in Zeist or Amsterdam. The cost is €210 per session.

Couples typically need 5–10 sessions with us to achieve their goals. A therapy program usually costs between €1,050 and €2,100.

While this may seem like a significant investment, it is lower than the average cost of therapy in the Netherlands. According to de Volkskrant in 2023, therapy programs cost between €1,800 and €2,250 on average.

At De Relatiespecialist, the total cost of the program is lower, and you’ll spend less time.

This is thanks to our specialization in couples therapy and our highly trained therapists. As a result, we quickly get to the root of the problem. That’s why we’ve been rated as the highest-rated couples therapy practice in the Netherlands on Coachscore for three consecutive years.

How to Get Started

Do you have questions or want a no-obligation introductory meeting? Schedule a free Match Call [link].

Ready to start right away? Send us an email at info@derelatiespecialist.nl. You’ll then receive the link to the therapist’s calendar and the online intake form.

For more details about couples therapy, visit our dedicated webpage: [link].

Feelings for Someone Else

One of you has developed feelings for someone else—perhaps a colleague or a gym buddy. This is very common and doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship. However, it’s crucial to take action quickly.

We help you navigate this situation without assigning blame, finding the right balance between fighting for your relationship, managing feelings for the other person, and staying grounded.

Your preferred solution and average cost

In this situation, regular couples therapy is the best option. This can be conducted online and/or face-to-face at our locations in Zeist or Amsterdam. The cost is €210 per session.

Couples typically need 5–10 sessions with us to achieve their goals. A therapy program usually costs between €1,050 and €2,100.

While this may seem like a significant investment, it is lower than the average cost of therapy in the Netherlands. According to de Volkskrant in 2023, therapy programs cost between €1,800 and €2,250 on average.

At De Relatiespecialist, the total cost of the program is lower, and you’ll spend less time.

This is thanks to our specialization in couples therapy and our highly trained therapists. As a result, we quickly get to the root of the problem. That’s why we’ve been rated as the highest-rated couples therapy practice in the Netherlands on Coachscore for three consecutive years.

How to Get Started

Do you have questions or want a no-obligation introductory meeting? Schedule a free Match Call [link].

Ready to start right away? Send us an email at info@derelatiespecialist.nl. You’ll then receive the link to the therapist’s calendar and the online intake form.

For more details about couples therapy, visit our dedicated webpage: [link].

Too Many Arguments or Irritations

Many couples find that over time, arguments and irritations increase. This often leads to both partners feeling like they’re walking on eggshells. Despite trying your best to do things right, the tension at home keeps building.

If this sounds familiar, it’s important to start seeing each other with fresh eyes. Rediscover how spending quality time together can be enjoyable and rewarding. This is best achieved through a program lasting several months, as it allows you to dedicate 1-2 hours per week to improving your relationship. Regular couples therapy is less suitable for establishing new habits in your relationship.

We offer a program that is specifically designed to help you build new relationship skills so you can communicate without fear, see each other’s good intentions, and, most importantly, enjoy more fun together.

Option 1: Premium Marriage Relationship Counseling
This is a 3-month program for couples where the demands of one or both partners’ careers are taking a toll on the relationship. It’s specifically designed for executives, doctors, airline pilots, and successful entrepreneurs whose businesses are thriving but whose relationships are struggling.

Home life has become unpleasant, irritations are building, and neither of you feels recognized for the effort you’re putting into the relationship. This is the only program where therapy is provided by Annemieke Visser herself.

The investment for this program is €4,997, and it also comes with a Success Guarantee. If you still separate, you’ll receive a full refund. Click here for more information.

Option 2: Regular Couples Therapy
For couples who aren’t interested in a group program or find the Premium Couples Therapy investment too high, regular couples therapy is a great alternative.

The cost for regular therapy at De Relatiespecialist is €210 per session.

Want to start quickly? Send an email to info@derelatiespecialist.nl or schedule a no-obligation Match Call by [clicking here].

Not Sure Which Option is Best for You?
We understand. Schedule a free, no-obligation Match Call with one of our therapists to ask any questions and get tailored advice.

Find a time that works for you: Click here to schedule your free Match Call.

 

Challenges in a Blended Family

Forget all the written and unwritten rules that apply to a typical successful relationship. Creating a harmonious blended family requires an entirely different set of principles—not everyone knows this.

If these principles aren’t followed, conflict can arise over almost everything: the (lack of) gratitude from stepchildren, parenting approaches, or how loved and appreciated the parents feel. Left unchecked, these issues can drive a wedge between you and your partner.

Do you want peace in your blended family and love between you and your partner again? You’ve come to the right place. We have all the expertise needed to help you.

Your preferred solution and average cost

In this situation, regular couples therapy is the best option. This can be conducted online and/or face-to-face at our locations in Zeist or Amsterdam. The cost is €210 per session.

Couples typically need 5–10 sessions with us to achieve their goals. A therapy program usually costs between €1,050 and €2,100.

While this may seem like a significant investment, it is lower than the average cost of therapy in the Netherlands. According to de Volkskrant in 2023, therapy programs cost between €1,800 and €2,250 on average.

At De Relatiespecialist, the total cost of the program is lower, and you’ll spend less time.

This is thanks to our specialization in couples therapy and our highly trained therapists. As a result, we quickly get to the root of the problem. That’s why we’ve been rated as the highest-rated couples therapy practice in the Netherlands on Coachscore for three consecutive years.

How to Get Started

Do you have questions or want a no-obligation introductory meeting? Schedule a free Match Call [link].

Ready to start right away? Send us an email at info@derelatiespecialist.nl. You’ll then receive the link to the therapist’s calendar and the online intake form.

For more details about couples therapy, visit our dedicated webpage: [link].

Grown Apart

Do you find yourself wondering if you still belong together? Have the past few years of juggling work, family, and friends caused you to drift apart?

Many couples experience this feeling once the whirlwind of the early parenting years starts to calm down. What do you even talk about anymore when it’s not about the kids or work?

If this sounds familiar, there’s definitely work to be done. But remember, you chose this wonderful man or woman to start a family with for a reason! Now is the time to rediscover each other, appreciate one another again, and bring fun back into your relationship.

These are your preferred options: 

Option 1: Premium Marriage Relationship Counseling
This is a 3-month program for couples where the demands of one or both partners’ careers are taking a toll on the relationship. It’s specifically designed for executives, doctors, airline pilots, and successful entrepreneurs whose businesses are thriving but whose relationships are struggling.

Home life has become unpleasant, irritations are building, and neither of you feels recognized for the effort you’re putting into the relationship. This is the only program where therapy is provided by Annemieke Visser herself.

The investment for this program is €4,997, and it also comes with a Success Guarantee. If you still separate, you’ll receive a full refund. Click here for more information.

Option 2: Regular Couples Therapy
For couples who aren’t interested in a group program or find the Premium Couples Therapy investment too high, regular couples therapy is a great alternative.

The cost for regular therapy at De Relatiespecialist is €210 per session.

Want to start quickly? Send an email to info@derelatiespecialist.nl or schedule a no-obligation Match Call by [clicking here].

Not Sure Which Option is Best for You?
We understand. Schedule a free, no-obligation Match Call with one of our therapists to ask any questions and get tailored advice.

Find a time that works for you: Click here to schedule your free Match Call.

 

One of You Wants to Divorce, the Other Does Not

It’s rare for both partners to decide on divorce at the same time. Once the desire for separation has been expressed, it’s crucial to ensure that both partners feel heard and understood. Without this, attitudes toward one another can quickly harden.

In such situations, resentment grows, and conflicts escalate. This can lead to a messy and unpleasant divorce—not just for you but also for your children.

Do you want to avoid hiring expensive lawyers and turning your divorce into a “winner-takes-all” battle? In that case, a couples therapy program before the divorce is a wise step.

This therapy can have two goals. First, it can explore whether there’s still enough love to stay together. Alternatively, it can confirm that divorce is the right decision, but with an understanding of how things reached this point. In this scenario, both partners feel heard and understood, making it easier to separate amicably and prioritize the well-being of your children.

Important: We always establish your goals in advance. This is essential for determining how the therapy will proceed and the techniques we will use. It’s especially important for the partner who has expressed the desire to divorce, ensuring they don’t feel “tricked” into giving the relationship another chance when they’ve clearly expressed their wish to separate.

Your preferred solution and average cost

In this situation, regular couples therapy is the best option. This can be conducted online and/or face-to-face at our locations in Zeist or Amsterdam. The cost is €210 per session.

Couples typically need 5–10 sessions with us to achieve their goals. A therapy program usually costs between €1,050 and €2,100.

While this may seem like a significant investment, it is lower than the average cost of therapy in the Netherlands. According to de Volkskrant in 2023, therapy programs cost between €1,800 and €2,250 on average.

At De Relatiespecialist, the total cost of the program is lower, and you’ll spend less time.

This is thanks to our specialization in couples therapy and our highly trained therapists. As a result, we quickly get to the root of the problem. That’s why we’ve been rated as the highest-rated couples therapy practice in the Netherlands on Coachscore for three consecutive years.

How to Get Started

Do you have questions or want a no-obligation introductory meeting? Schedule a free Match Call [link].

Ready to start right away? Send us an email at info@derelatiespecialist.nl. You’ll then receive the link to the therapist’s calendar and the online intake form.

For more details about couples therapy, visit our dedicated webpage: [link].

A Combination of Factors

Are you dealing with a combination of issues? Rest assured—very few couples face only one of the challenges mentioned above. In our experience, couples often encounter a buildup of factors before seeking couples therapy. Fortunately, even in these cases, it’s almost always possible to achieve a positive outcome.

The most important step is to take action. We recommend sharing your specific situation with us. You can do this via email or by scheduling a brief call with one of our relationship specialists. This way, we can help you as quickly as possible.

Send an email to info@derelatiespecialist.nl or schedule a no-obligation Match Call by [clicking here].

Want an idea of what to expect? Take a look at the scenarios listed here and choose the one that resonates most with you.

My Situation Is Different

Your situation is unique. There are countless other reasons to seek help from a couples therapist. Perhaps you’re uncertain about having a child, still struggling years later with the aftermath of a difficult postpartum period, or grieving the loss of a loved one, which has made it hard to connect with each other. These are just examples—many other issues could be at play.

In this case, we recommend sharing your specific situation with us. You can do this via email or by scheduling a brief call with one of our couples therapists. This way, we can help you as quickly as possible.

Send an email to info@derelatiespecialist.nl or schedule a no-obligation Match Call by [clicking here].

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At De Relatiespecialist, couples therapy means striving for excellence. For three years in a row, we have been the highest-rated couples therapy practice in the Netherlands on Coachscore.

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Face to face couples counseling in Amsterdam and Zeist.

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Online couples counseling is available from anywhere in the Netherlands, Belgium, or the rest of the world. Online couples therapy is just as effective as face-to-face sessions

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Thanks to our specialized expertise, our therapy programs are shorter than average, so you’ll spend less time.

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We work differently, which is why our waiting times are much shorter than those of other couples therapists

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